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Love Loving

The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.

Ernest Hemingway

Love Loving Yourself

How special are you in terms of your own opinion? Concerning this question in my own life, I came to see that from the age of seven years (I cannot recall anything before that time) to just a few years ago; I had many fears and insecurities.

When I was a teenager, I embarked on a long-time affair – with a mirror, yes a mirror! And probably connected to the fact that I noticed the opposite sex found me attractive. Naturally, I wanted to take full advantage of this newfound interest.

My Love Affair

Love yourself to Freedom

While all this was taking place, unawares to me, there was the subconscious surfacing of my fears and insecurities. As a consequence, these began competing with my mirror affair. Something else that climbed onto the stage of my love affair at this time was the increasing use of my imagination. I began pretending to be someone I was not (a type of Walter Mitty – by comparison.)

Love Yourself First

Today I know that I could have saved myself heartache and grief. These fears and insecurities would cause me to be co-dependent on the partners with whom I loved above myself. I discovered self-love only a few years ago. Since that discovery, I broke the chains of co-dependency.

Ancient Words of Wisdom

An ancient scripture reveals that we must love others as we love ourselves. The ancient text also states there is no greater wisdom than this action. What we don’t immediately illumine is this:

‘We cannot love anyone too much if we don’t love ourselves as much.’

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Lockdown!

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Our President placed this country under lockdown as at midnight on Thursday, March 26th. 2020. And this was my take on the issue at that time:

The Family Scene

My immediate family, of which I am the oldest, consists of two children and five grandchildren. specifically, the family live in five different homes within a twenty five kilometer radius of one another.

‘Lockdown’ for me is a first-timer, never having experienced it before.

Growing up in the latter part of the great war and living in post war times was tough. Further, my father and three uncles were part of the war machine. As a result one uncle was killed and thankfully my father and two uncles came home to us.

I watched two sons conscripted into the war machine in the ‘80’s. Both came home alive, one was wounded and recovered physically, but never psychologically.

Thankfully my grandchildren have grown, one in his teens, four into their twenties. Two have university degrees and three are on their way; all have good homes.

Onset of Covid 19

At the onset of Covid-19, my grandchildren, faced with far greater media hype than I ever experienced, were placed in a situation of doubt and concern. Notwithstanding their access to information on the internet and research skills. They acquired these in the course of their education.

We parents are faced with both the concerns for our children and the economy of our country. Our Country has a population of fifty seven million souls. Six million of this number live in our city. We are concerned for our own small businesses, the livelihood of which supports our family. But our biggest concern is for the potential physical effects of the virus upon our population. Being  a third world country, we could not cope with a pandemic, like say, Italy!

Our Country

In this country, we have the best government since 1994. Our President and Minister of Finance are very capable men (my opinion). So, from a security and economic perspective we have a small chance.

The greater percentage of our people are not familiar with preventative measures that need to be applied. In addition our country has very limited medical resources to cope with the size of our population. “Solum habemus fide in Deum – In God alone we trust.”

Our government, businesses and many responsible people, seemed to have galvanized themselves into action.

How Can We Help?

My Grandchildren asked me what more could be done to help. I replied, following good hygienic preventative measures and obeying what our government has instructed.

What I told them was: we need to look in another direction. Into that lesser understood place within ourselves. That place from which we receive priceless advice, honest advice, advice we are able to rely on.

What is our First Reaction Normally?

When some traumatic event affecting our family, our community, country, the globe, our first turn is to fear. Fear of dying, losing a family member, relative, friend. Afraid of lack, of material loss, of unemployment, the list is endless. At this point we seek advice from wherever we can source it, reliable or otherwise. After which, we worry, even to the point of illness.

What Should We Do?

With any catastrophe there are certainly two issues that will arise in it’s wake, we:

  • can do nothing to change the course of the catastrophe.
  • are powerless to do anything about the (possibly major) changes that will take place in our lives.

It is imperative we accept the fact that the only place where we can make decisions affecting our future  is now. In this moment. The past is too late and the ‘future’, in reality, does not exist.

If we refuse to act in this moment now, after a night’s sleep, we will be in what we called ‘tomorrow and has become ‘now.’

My Fortunate Escape.

Where I was raised, there was a common saying, “Next year will be better.” I left that country eventually, not by choice. The decision I had to make was almost immediate and I realize now that it was made in a moment called now. That ‘now’ was made fifty years ago and I am so grateful that I made the move. since then I have watched that country fall lower than its knees. Laid waste by corrupt, greedy politicians.

Going Forward.

We consult our inner selves now and plan as to how we will live our lives.  Irrespective what our decisions are, this will  allow us to navigate from today’s now, onward.

It will allow us to plan ahead, because that is wise. Plan, building our life’s foundations on a solid rock now, not waiting for the elusive ‘tomorrow.’

It will allow us to live every moment of our lives in the now. Because neither the past nor the future exist – the only time is, now.

We have been given a lockdown; an opportunity to:

  • Evaluate our relationships, spiritual and human.
  • Find things for which we need to be grateful.
  • Establish what is beneficial in our lives now and discard the unprofitable.
  • Asses what we tolerate and get rid of what’s useless for us to tolerate.

This list is by no means exhaustive.

This moment NOW is where we have been offered a window of time to consider, what changes we can make. This must be done before changes, over which we have no control, move in first.

Don’t waste this space pondering on what could happen, just make it happen.

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Misfortunes-Peter’s Wisdom Snippets .

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Because of the many misfortunes, I have experienced in my own life that I have compassion for those that lack in any way. And in this way, with my compassion, misfortunes became fortunes.

In times of sorrow, without thinking, I set my living aside to focus on my sorrow; And yet, sorrow gives nothing but pain, it is a taker of my joy and peace. But living is a giver of all manner of wonderful experiences. So I opted to leave sorrow behind and live. What a difference that has made to me.

I found that if do something helpful for another, I am immediately uplifted.

Integrity holds within its grasp the power of generosity towards others. And generosity towards others holds the power of return to sender, with interest.

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Grudges-Peter’s Wisdom Snippets.

Grudge

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When I’m tempted to hold grudges; It calls for rearranging the thoughts in my mind. I make very sure the important thoughts are placed on top of the others. Next, I toss the grudges into file thirteen. Hey-ho, I’m ready to go.

It has become apparent to me that accusing others is a senseless activity. This benefits neither the accuser nor the one being accused. For this reason, I accuse no one, not even myself. Because the folly of blame, justified or not, is this: It is never a solution.

It is said, when I point an accusing finger at anyone, three fingers point back at me. The fingers say, “Energy waster!”

It is both consoling and gratifying for me to respect all my fellow human beings. To treat or think of others with contempt is more damaging to me than it is to them.

I am intensely aware of perceiving something to be what it’s not. Wisdom has taught me to carefully filter my perception in order for me to see things as they really are.

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Rainbows-Wisdom Snippets From Peter.

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Have you ever wondered why you can never catch rainbows? Heaven knows I tried many times. Finally, the truth hit home; rainbows always disappear as mysteriously as they arrive. The most wonderful part is though, I am always left with a strong sense of promise that better times are ahead.

The universe is ever moving, she breathes and sleeps as she moves. All within her must move with her there is no other option.

The trees bend in the storm because they know they will stand erect once again when the storm has left.

Actions I perform today, visible or not, may take many moons to reveal themselves, but reveal themselves, they will. This is a fact of life. This is Karma.

What goes around comes around.

We have all, at some time or other, heard or read the above proverb. I have no idea of the exact origins of the proverb. But it could have had some link to the ancient scriptures. Because these allude to the fact that what you sow, that you will reap. Surely this is commonsense to all of us. If I plant carrot seeds, I don’t expect to harvest apples, do I? included in the sowing and reaping principle, we have a graphic view of how the universe functions. Consider the theory of relativity, for example. Which says, in simple terms, what goes up must come down. None of us would argue the toss on this one, would we? So then, in short, however, we conduct our lives in this life will eventuate a return to us. Beneficial or damaging.

But this is not all. If I plant a corn pip, it would grow into a stalk, that will bear two cobs. If healthy and fat these two cobs can bear as many as two thousand pips! Makes you think, doesn’t it?

Lesson: Mind how you live your lives.

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Powerful-Wisdom Snippets -From Peter.

Power

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My talents are no match against the daily happenings released by the universe. But the powerful light within in me is greater than that of the Universe. There is a powerful force within me. It is activated by me pushing the ‘release’ button in my mind and the result becomes visible once I act. In discovering the latent power within me, I met a lifelong partner.

With the mindset, ‘I can.’ I can not be stopped.

I notice that science and the world, in general, move forward rapidly every day. I join them and go with the flow; it stimulates my mind and growth. I feel so much better too.

My aptitude for hard work and commitment is a treasure beyond value and it has always got me by. It always will. There are two things that have been a tremendous help to me. One is my positive attitude, the other, a strong aptitude for work and consistency.

Daily I attempt to make full use of my talents. As I use them the results encourage me so much I find myself looking for more. Also interesting, with these talents, I never seem to get to the bottom of the well!

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Catch-Wisdom Snippets From Peter

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My thoughts and actions are not the results of those around me, nor the characters the world idolizes. But rather the wisdom that is given to me to make my own choices.

I have come to the realization my dreams are controlled by my thinking. When I think success, I experience success. Whatever I think, I experience.

When someone throws a ball at me, what do I do? Catch it of course. Why then don’t I catch the multitudes of opportunities that are thrown my way each day?

I am the master artist in my life. Creating each detail into one magnificent art piece. This creation is not linked to money generation, but rather the quality of life.

 

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Talents-Wisdom Snippets From Peter

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Over time I have discovered talents hidden within me; I not only start to use these but I keep looking for others. The cost of finding and using talents is high. I need to stretch myself to the limit to discover and acquire; unless I do, my search is fruitless. The more I use the talents I have, the more they increase. Like water from a tap, the more I turn the tap the greater the flow.

I made a decision recently; to stop planning my life and wait instead for the life intended for me to eventuate. Now I feel like I’ve taken a fun vacation. Seriously, it’s so relaxing.

I am having the most fun I’ve ever enjoyed in my life; ceasing to be stagnant and have now become occupied with putting thoughts onto digital. And creating astounding messages out of them.

Mostly I want people to improve themselves. As I help others to better themselves, I start to feel better myself!

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Travel-Wisdom Snippets From Peter

Travel

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My Supercoach explained to me: time in the valley of hardship and tears is but a brief moment as you travel to the mountaintop. Look up and see the towering peaks. They call out to you, “Do not be slowed in your travel by your tears, we are waiting for you.”

I was wondering if there was a person who pushed the buttons and pulled the levers in my life. I had a better thought; what about a person who set a program in place which solved unlimited ‘What ifs’ in my life. I’m sure you’ll agree, it would be labor-saving.

I love meditative prayer. It’s a place where I keep company with nobility.

I understand when I share the blessings given me with others, I become part of the abundance of the universe. In the measure in which I give, it is given to me. The universal principle is worked on a ‘give and receive’ basis and no human has ever outgiven the universe.

 

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Eleanor Lorene Lowe-a Challenge!

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I had Rather wanted you to share in a challenge for which I was nominated by my dear friend Eleanor Lorene Louwe on her beautiful exhilarating site: ✨ Sunshine Blogger Award ✨ – You Lil Dickens.

Unfortunately, due to some vitally important commitments I have at this time, I can’t participate. As you have not been nominated you can’t be lined up for the award. But visit her site, answer the questions and take it from there.

Eleanor Lorene Lowe-Questions

  1. Do you think free will exists? If yes, please explain why and the role it plays in the world.
  2. In your opinion, does weed, overall, have more of a positive or negative impact? In other words, does it do more harm than good or the other way around?
  3. If you could live in any era which would it be and why?
  4. What is your favorite quote of all time and why that one?
  5. Pick one of the worst events in history. If it were possible to change or prevent it, would you? Why?
  6. Should euthanasia be a legal option for all if the law was written with great care and consideration?
  7. Why does evil exist in the world?
  8. What is your superpower (AKA Your Greatest Strength)?
  9. Who do you think is currently one of the most influential individuals in showbiz? Why?
  10. How do you like your eggs? Do you think your preference reflects your personality?
  11. Are Myers-Briggs Personality Types all their cracked up to be?

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